I am so livid right now.... I just talked to Son, and my mommy sense was telling me something was wrong. Turns out he has been sleeping on the FLOOR at The Ex's "girl"friend's house for the past several MONTHS!!! WTF??? This woman is 42 years old, supposedly a "pillar of the community" (let him tell it) who is oh so concerned about children (she's the director a community center for fuck sake!!) and she can't even make accommodations for my son to have a bed. I know that she's only been a mother for a few years now (since she adopted a half-grown child and doesn't have any biological kids of her own) but she should at least realize that a child has BASIC NEEDS, even if my dumb ass Ex doesn't realize it.
I called The Ex right away about it, and all I got was him telling me that son WANTED to sleep on the floor, a hang up, and then texts asking if I'm drunk. NO MUTHAFUCKER I'M A PISSED OFF MOTHER CONCERNED ABOUT HER FIRST BORN CHILD'S WELL BEING!!! This is absolutely disgusting and inexcusable. And the thing that makes me even angrier is that I KNOW he's going to go back and yell at my son for telling me. And folks wonder why I got divorced?? You see what kind of dumb ass I was married to???? And what's more fucked up is that I got berated mercilessly when I moved into my apartment and my son had to sleep on an air mattress for 2 months until I could afford to buy him a new bed because I LEFT my son's old bed supposedly so The Ex could have it for my kids to have something to sleep on!! But of course, he left it in the house, just like he left everything else in the house, because he was too lazy and bitchassed to go back in there and get the rest of the stuff that I left for HIM.
Oooooooooh I am so mad right now!! And it hurts because I feel like there's nothing I can do about it. I think I'm going to send Son home on Sunday with the air mattress that I still have around here. At least that's something until those bastards take their heads out each other's asses and get my son a bed.
I just wish I could bring my baby home......
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WHATTT!!!
SOMEBODY NEEDS A ASS WOOPING!!!
First, gotta say, LOVE your blog.
Second, WHAAA?! So, apparently, a mother becoming angry that her son has to sleep on the FLOOR in a household with people who can damn well afford a bed can only be explained by her being drunk? AMAZING what ninjas come up with.
UMMMMM WHAT?!?! COMPLETELY not acceptable. COMPLETELY not acceptable.
I hope that gets straightened out asap. isn't that like neglect? Doenst he realize how much damage can be done to your son's back by sleeping on the floor? wtf?
Lord have mercy!!! I applaud you that you are not writing this blog from the nearest county jail. I pray that your soon get a bed SOON!!! And that your ex get some good g!d! sense!
I would be absolutely livid as well!! Why in the world would he assume that you are drunk because you inquired about your son (his too mind you so he should be concerned as well) sleeping on the floor? I hope you get it straightened out and soon! You might have to just buy the bed yourself. That will make them both look real stupid. You can get a really cheap full size mattress, box spring and frame set from Big Lot Furniture or Court Furniture. I'm just trying to help a sistah out :).
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